Reflecting on the verse, “Very truly I tell you, when you were younger you dressed yourself and went where you wanted; but when you are old you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go,” I am always reminded of Oyunga Pala. He is a true man’s man—one whose patience, love, and care have helped nurture me into who I am today.

Much like a diligent gardener, Oyunga’s coaching style artfully blends essential elements. Tending: He patiently guides, encouraging gentle, steady growth. Pruning: With compassion, he challenges with truth that may be uncomfortable but is always necessary for transformation. Watering: Through consistent support and kindness, he nurtures potential, helping it flourish.

What distinguishes Oyunga is his integration of the Utu framework in coaching—a philosophy grounded in African ideals that anchors each person within the broader community. For African men in particular, this approach reinforces that growth is not about self-centred awareness or abandoning one’s community in the pursuit of the narcissistic pursuit of self actualisation prevalent in today’s psychological and coaching practice. Instead, personal development is a journey that strengthens your connection to the collective. Oyunga encourages returning to the community with newfound grace, lifting others as you continue forward. This shared progress ensures everyone can rise in consciousness and contribute to a better tomorrow. Oyunga Pala is truly a coach’s coach—uniquely equipped to provide guidance, fostering not just individual excellence but also a communal legacy in a world searching for meaning amid daily chaos.

I’ve been trying to write down a summary of my experience and it is hard because putting into words things that have changed your foundation as a person is difficult. I’ve been looking for a coach because various life transitions required me to shed old ways of thinking and step into a new chapter that required authentic and self-awareness confidence. I was looking for a coach who could help me through that, and I can honestly say, Oyunga went far beyond what I expected.

Things I loved and appreciated about the coaching:

Intelligent Conversations
Oyunga is intelligent and the conversations were elevated in such a good way. They were deep, meaningful discussions that opened my mind to new perspectives I hadn’t considered before.

Personalized and Flexible Approach
I was steering away from any cookie-cutter program that followed a set formula, especially because my journey has been so unique. I needed coaching from someone who would understand that and not give me a one-size-fits-all approach. There was no predefined topic to start each session, yet by the end, a common thread began to appear and I had a clear understanding of my own process.

Learning and Growing
By the fourth session, I had exactly the tools I needed to continue moving forward. I was initially skeptical that six sessions would be enough and I wondered whether a longer process would be ideal. It was a point of growth to move from uncertainty to absolute certainty and to be confident in the things that have made me unique, yet at times felt like a handicap. I also appreciated the follow-up reading and additional resources Oyunga shared, which were a great way to keep learning even after the sessions ended.

Real-Time Results
I’m not usually into clichés, but the coaching came at the perfect time for me. It helped me tackle real-life challenges. The tools I got from the coaching were incredibly useful in navigating tough conversations and situations. My mindset shifted, my attitude changed, and the results were there in my personal and professional life.

A Human Touch
What really made this experience special was the space Oyunga created for open and honest conversations that felt like talking to a fellow human who cared rather than just someone doing his job. 

If you’re thinking of getting a coach – get Oyunga. His unconventional, witty, smart and guided approach was what I needed.

Coaching a coach can be difficult as the coach already knows and understands the coaching structure. However, as a coach myself, working with Oyunga has been transformational. Celebrating existing wins, he has an ability to distill the lessons from what we define as “failures” and use those lessons as the building blocks for the next level of your success.

 Oyunga will help you to define your core values, set meaningful goals, and make major positive changes to align your life and relationships with what matters most. Now I wake up feeling genuinely excited, confident, and intentional in how I spend my time. 

He is compassionate, curious, direct and completely without judgment in his style and leaves you feeling empowered and in control If you are struggling with direction, definition or the courage to take the next steps in what truly matters to you, I highly recommend his life-changing guidance.

“I had the privilege of working with Oyunga for six sessions, and it was a revelatory experience. Oyunga’s approach to exploring challenges and removing blockers is remarkable, his wisdom and empathy helped me gain clarity on my aspirations, but also awareness on my strengths and areas of growth.

I now have a practical toolbox to chart my path confidently. I highly recommend Oyunga to anyone seeking positive change and personal development.”

“In life, when one reaches an impasse and needs to pivot, its time to find a coach; one who understands where you are and where you need to go. One who is patient, has a wealth of wisdom, and one who is a good confidant. That is what I found in my Executive Coach, Oyunga Pala.

From the very first session, he was an exceptional listener who quickly deciphered my unique situation and designed a path for us that best worked to meet my needs. He was very empathetic to my fears and uncertainties, which required patience and gentle guidance. He was very knowledgeable, providing different tools to help me in my coaching journey.

Oyunga is a remarkable coach and I would highly recommend him to any individual looking to pivot to the next phase of their life and requires a gentle guide in their process.”