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Me, I love Nairobi

  • December 13, 2021
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To be a Nairobian is a commitment because it is a city that teaches you to take nothing for granted. I sometimes think of Nairobi as a childhood crush that developed into a committed relationship and every time we meet after long stretches apart, a sense of closeness and attachment is restored. 
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A Maid In Europe

  • December 6, 2021
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 It is your first time out of the country of your birth. Your first time on an airplane on a trip overseas carrying a brand new blue passport. It had…
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Raising A Pandemic Baby

  • November 29, 2021
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Photo by Marc Nielsen Styled by Brian Babu Concept by Fancy Fingers
Parenting psychologists generally assert that the first three years of a child’s life are foundational. How many fathers become absent in the early stages of infancy only to return bearing gifts and engaging in remedial parenting hoping to catch up on lost years over a series of fun weekends? Gabor Maté explains that children have an attachment need and in the absence of a nurturing adult to attach to, they tend to fill the void with a peer group.
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The African Tourist

  • November 23, 2021
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It was the time before corona.  Jamaa, a regional technology sales leader, travelled to Europe from Nairobi to report to the head office in Stockholm. While on these annual trips,…
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An Encounter With Blackness in Amsterdam

  • November 6, 2021
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Observing the largest gathering of black people I had ever seen in Amsterdam, I realised that their pain was familiar, yet we knew so little of each other, separated not just by geography and language, but also by a suppression of our stories.
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Of Chapati, Identity and Migrant Politics in Europe

  • November 5, 2021
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In the mid-90s, my mother paid a visit to an aunt who had emigrated to Scandinavia and settled in Stockholm, Sweden, for over two decades. Of the many memories she…
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Moi: The Passing Of A Father Figure

  • February 20, 2020
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Nyayo! The word Nyayo conjures up the image of a past president and the experience of living under his regime. The term Nyayo had fallen out of usage for many…
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The Shame Of Broken Men

  • March 26, 2018
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The seeds of shame are planted in childhood. Children grow up with no capacity to deal with shame other than to sink into bouts of denial that follow them to adulthood.
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Breaking The Black Ceiling

  • February 19, 2018
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They had much to prove especially as young indigenous Kenyans attempting to claim a significant stake in an industry that was stereotypical fronted by white Art directors.
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The Boy Who Loved The Kitchen

  • January 22, 2018
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Father had desired a taste of the power that the soup gave its maker but he was too proud to admit it. He was a manly man, a hunter by design yet he remained awake to the fact that true power was not in the man who brought home the meat but in the woman whose stew made the guests break into praise after the meal.
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