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Reflections On The Ones We Lost

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Grief’s Inheritance: A Lesson in Hindsight for Gen Z

  • July 2, 2025
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Millennials have their versions of lost innocence: 2007 and 2017, the seismic years of post-election violence. And now, watching you Gen Zs, I see that same flicker of dawning realization in your eyes, perhaps heightened during the June 2024 Anti-finance bill demonstrations.
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Grief in the Digital Age: A Lesson in Change

  • June 25, 2025
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He was now just a number – a telephone line that could no longer be located. What do you do with the chat history? When someone close to you dies,…
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The Order of the Good Death: A Lesson in Closure

  • June 18, 2025
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When someone says they want to "die well," they are usually imagining the size of the funeral.
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Why did they Die: A Lesson in Bearing Witness

  • June 11, 2025
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The injustice of watching children grow into adulthood—lives dedicated to this mission—only for them to die. It's your life savings, lost to a single phone scam. It's the existential dread of a parent building a magnificent house, brick by brick, only to realize, upon completion, that those it was for no longer exist.
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 Where Are Their Graves? A Lesson in Remembrance

  • June 4, 2025
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I know, I am part of a grave obsessed generation. The permanence of graves is our language of love, our attempt to control legacy and pushback against the ephemeral nature of life.
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When Sorrow Refuses Silence: A Lesson in Unruly Grief

  • May 28, 2025
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Allow people to grieve in the only way they know how. It is not a competition. Where it is genuine, it rehumanizes and demands a response. There is nothing irrational about unruly grief. It is a profoundly rational response to irrational, cruel death.
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My Friend, The Bishop: A Lesson in Presence

  • May 21, 2025
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I don't even remember what he preached about. All I recall was that he simply was there. That was enough. His physical presence offered quiet guidance and steady shepherding through the bewildering landscape of loss.
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